I am feeling so many emotions right now that I don't want to feel. It's hard when a close friend of the same sex admits that they like you as more than a friend and have always seen you as that. It makes everything she's ever said to me, every compliment she's given to me, every time she's hugged me into something more for her. It's just weird and confusing to go back and think about all the times she's talked about how pretty I am or whatever. And she was able to feed my negativity I have towards myself into compliments that I took as her being a good friend, trying to make me feel better about myself which were really her saying those things in an "I like you" kind of way. Wow. I feel like now that she's told me, things will never be the same between us. I can never hang out with her with out thinking that she sees me as something more than a friend. And it creeped me out when she told me she would have tried to kiss me that time we were alone mini golfing. I just don't know how to process this. I mean it's not her fault per say for feeling that way. You can't help who you're attracted to, but I just don't really wanna keep being friends because talking to her or hanging out with her will be really awkward. I told her I was glad she told me, because I would hate not knowing something like this, but at the same time, it has totally changed how I view her and it's going to continue to change us hanging out.
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